Gray People Are Turning Off Lights

Gray people are discouraging dreams of others, they judge, humiliate, lie, they want to make you complex for who you are. They go through life always with the intention of subtracting, not adding. They say hurtful phrases without caring in the least how you might feel.

Gray people are turning off lights, and one of them may be yours. The motives? They are not clear. There are people who instead of transforming their pain into healing for themselves have chosen to discourage others so that their world is more in sync with who they are. Because you cannot see its brightness or its darkness, you can only notice the harmful effect that they leave on you.

There are many ways to nullify another person: devalue everything they do, ridicule their dreams by advising that they always throw in the towel and, in this way, leave behind emotional corpses that tune in to their “bad energy.”

The world is full of noble and wonderful people who vibrate with life even after having suffered its blows. They refuse to become someone they really are not. But unfortunately a person with light can meet many of these people on the road and can end up turning off.

Perhaps by turning off, they become resentful people who repeat the behaviors that one day made them completely break down. It is a chain of negativity that we must avoid reaching us.

If you are a person with light, others may want to turn it off

How are people with light? Many of us would say that they are those people “smiles”, moderate but committed to the problems around them. Without eagerness to take center stage but who end up being in the most intimate corners of many souls who come to them for their empathy and character. People with light transmit peace.

But above all, people with light do not carry on their back a backpack of reproaches, judgments, hurtful or humiliating comments. People with light have dreams, they adapt to their environment without letting social conventions override them and, most importantly: they don’t want to end their life with undone dreams but with experiences to remember.

If they perceive that another person is also fighting for the same thing, they do not compete or envy him, they will simply choose him as a travel companion. People with light encourage and support others because they rejoice in their joys.

Your best weapons to conserve your light

To avoid that your light goes out when difficulties arise or that gray people try to turn them off at some point in your life, you can carry out some strategies that will serve as protection:

• Ignore:  don’t confront yourself, don’t try to prove anything. If you hear comments that are meant to discourage you, don’t waste energy convincing them that they are wrong. You need that energy for your way.
• Surround yourself with people with the same values:  you will be able to meet very different people throughout your life, but if you meet someone with the same values, the path will not be so uphill.
• Stay away from drama: Stay away from people who encourage drama, even with the small vicissitudes of your life. That the stigma that others promote does not take over you and what you do.

What to do if you feel like your light has gone out

Fortunately, in this life we ​​are not just what happens to us or what we think we are. The personality is built throughout life and it is true that some experiences change, but only as a change that transforms, not as something immutable and fixed.

If you have lost your illusion about everything and some people you have known have done you more harm than you ever imagined, you have the right to feel strange and sad for some time, but if you lose the illusion and abandon your dreams it will be difficult for you to come back. to find meaning in your existence.

It would be great to try again. Do not let them take away your illusion again, your little ways of savoring life in your own way, which is unique. Don’t give those gray people the pleasure of losing the meaning of your existence. They have already ruined theirs and it would be good if you asked yourself this question: Do you want to be one of them?